EMOTIONAL ABUSE IS THERE TOO BY ANGIE
Emotional Abuse Is There Too
By: Angie, Oct.
24, 2017 5:30 pm
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“This image represents of a kid who has been abused in many ways such as Emotional Abuse. The light represents a door being open to his room by whomever is causing this abuse.”
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We have all
heard of abusive relationships and how you shouldn’t hit people. What happens
when you emotionally abuse someone, or perhaps your child. Abuse is wrong no matter if its physical or emotional, you are
still hurting someone maybe without
even know it.
Some might
ask what is Emotional Abuse. It
might sound simple but its more complicated than that. It can be caused if
someone is yelling, using swear words, mocking, ignoring, humiliating.
Sometimes parents do most of these things if they lose their temper or if they
have issues that they are dealing on their own. This can cause your child to
not show the correct emotions at the correct times. Some children may show only anger because they aren’t taught that
anger is bad because they see their parents like that all the time. Most
parents get frustrated with their kids and that is normal but correcting your
child can be helpful along the road. Let them express their emotions and then
correct them in a way that they understand what is wrong at wrong times or what
is correct at the correct times.
Examples of
how Emotional Abuse is caused, biggest
things:
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Lying. In any relationship if there is no trust then
its damaged. Lying to your kids about a few things if they are young is known
to be as normal parenting. Once they are older you shouldn’t lie to them, you
should explain to them if they have question about anything. And also promises,
if you promise your kid something follow through. Don’t crush them with “I
forgot” or “I’m sorry next time”. Because soon or later they will get the hint and
then they will possibly not ask you for anything ever again which can lead to
lots of problems.
·
Ignoring. Don’t ignore your kids about
anything. That will only hurt them much more if they are struggling with
something help them out don’t just roll your eyes and get angry at them because
they will learn as they grow much older to do that to their kids once they
start a family. They are always there when you need them even if it can be
about ridiculous things, be there for them too.
·
No Communication. If you ignore your kids, they will
eventually learn how to live without you by their side which is wrong because
they won’t know what’s right or what’s wrong. They will either pick up bad
habits or they will stay silent and away from the world. Communicating with
your child is good because you get to teach them from right and wrong so they
can become responsible in depended people. Emotionally
abused kids are often punished for expressing their emotions.
No one notices Emotional Abuse,
you might think it’s silly or not realistic but it’s here. It can affect your
kids or maybe it has already affected you.
Emotionally Abused can lead to:
Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Suicidal. No one wants that for their kids.
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